As much as we love watching a meet-cute on screen, in real life flirting is a freaking minefield. Am I being too nice, am I being too rude? Am I being paranoid? Is he attentive or is he a stalker? Can I balance on the paper-thin line between "leading him on" and ending up on the front page of tomorrow's newspaper?

The math we do every single day in calculating the safety each laugh, each handshake - it's quiet but endless. Maybe it’s time we gave it a forum.

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