Show notes

Sharing good news with your partner should feel connecting. Yet for many people, moments of success can quickly turn into hurt or tension when the response feels flat, awkward, or dismissive.

In this episode, I respond to a listener question about getting a promotion and feeling unsupported by their partner. I unpack three common reasons this happens and what is often going on underneath the surface.

This is not about someone being uncaring or selfish. It is about different emotional languages, family histories, and unspoken fears colliding in the same moment.

What this episode explores

1. Why celebrations matter differently to different people
2. How family culture shapes responses to success
3. Why promotions can trigger shame, fear, or disconnection
4. How money and identity influence reactions
5. What to say when a moment goes wrong and how to slow the conversation down

When good news turns into conflict, it is rarely about the achievement itself. It is about meaning, expectations, and what has not yet been said.

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