Episode Highlights With Paul

• His journey to get to the work he does now 
• The metaphor of dance and how it relates to everything
• Somatic healing and how it comes into play
• “It’s sacred, not serious.”
• What the Habit Finder is and how this gives different information than regular personality tests
• Inductive assessments vs deductive assessment like the Habit Finder 
• Identity is very fluid and trauma can often become a core element of identity 
• Trauma is not what happened to you, its what's going on inside of you
• The body was never meant to be a storage facility for the energy of trauma which is trapped energy 
• Every human has experienced the most traumatic thing a human can experience in birth
• Finding authenticity in the function of the game we are all playing 
• We thought the brain was the command center, but it actually receives more guidance from the body than it sends
• The energy it takes to build something will always be the energy it takes to maintain it
• Your life is exactly as you need it to be and how understanding this can shift so much
• The liminal space that lets life be easier and more successful, can be accessed, and how to learn how
• The difference between obligation and devotion
• What a horizontal relationship is and why this is so important 
• Why many of the things we do that we think are for our children are actually for our own benefit
• If your child lies to you, its because they don’t feel safe. That doesn’t mean its ok, just that it requires different intention
• After age 7, the primary role of a parent is to be the safe place for them to come back to when they experience the world
• Why to reconsider not giving advice that isn’t asked for even with our children!
• The devil is only the devil when it is rejected

Resources Mentioned

• Follow Paul on Facebook and Instagram
• Habit Finder Assessment: Measure Your Unconscious Brain Patterns
• Unmarketability Test