How Do You Want Your Life To End? with Dr. Sunita Puri

Oct 31, 2025
1h 3m

Episode Description

My guest is Dr. Sunita Puri, a palliative-care physician and author of That Good Night: Life and Medicine in the Eleventh Hour. We talk about what it really means to care for patients when cure is no longer the goal, why our medical system resists honest conversations about death, and how clarity and compassion can coexist at the end of life.

Topics we cover:
    • What palliative care really provides (beyond hospice)
    • Why "more treatment" ≠ "more life"
    • Prognosis, probabilities, and telling the truth kindly
    • How families can ask the right questions
    • Documentation that matters (and what to avoid)
    • The moral distress of clinicians
    • Cultural/faith factors that shape decisions
    • Dignity, autonomy, and realistic hope

Guest Bio:
Dr. Sunita Puri is an Associate Professor of Medicine at the University of California, Irvine School of Medicine, where she is the Director of the Inpatient Palliative Care Service. She has written for The New Yorker, The New York Times, and The Atlantic, among other publications. She is the author of That Good Night: Life and Medicine in the Eleventh Hour, a critically acclaimed literary memoir examining her journey to the practice of palliative medicine, and her quest to help patients and families redefine what it means to live and die well in the face of serious illness.

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