Jaimie sits down with Daniel Berezowsky to talk about his and his husband’s journey to parenthood through surrogacy — and how their work in human rights shaped every step.

They share the emotional and financial realities of IVF, choosing an egg donor, and waiting to be matched with a surrogate, along with the surprising lessons they learned along the way — including letting go of assumptions and expanding what family can look like.

A thoughtful, honest conversation about queer family building, intention, and hope.

🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways

• You don’t need to have everything figured out before taking the first step toward parenthood
• Surrogacy is complex, emotional, and often far more expensive than expected
• Approaching family building through a human rights lens can lead to more intentional, ethical decisions
• The process of choosing an egg donor can feel overwhelming and deeply personal
• Matching with a surrogate can take time — and requires patience and trust
• Assumptions about people or places don’t always reflect reality
• Queer family building often expands the meaning of family in beautiful and unexpected ways
• Even when the path feels uncertain, hope and community matter

🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s) Daniel Berezowsky is a human rights practitioner, writer, and soon-to-be dad who is documenting his journey to parenthood with his husband through his platform, Two Dads to Be. Originally from Mexico and now living in New York City, Daniel brings a thoughtful, human rights-centered approach to family building — asking not just how to become a parent, but how to do it with care, intention, and respect for everyone involved.

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🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned

• Daniel’s Substack: Two Dads to Be → https://twodadstobe.com
• Organization mentioned: Men Having Babies → https://www.menhavingbabies.org https://berezowsky.substack.com/p/danny-and-jaimes-ultimate-surrogacy 
• Egg bank mentioned: Everie Egg Bank

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