Before The Queer Family Podcast had its name, it began as If These Ovaries Could Talk—a show Jaimie launched with original co-host Robin Hopkins.

In this very first episode, Robin interviews Jaimie and her wife Anne as they share the real-time story of building their family as a lesbian couple: unexpected infertility, choosing a sperm donor, navigating IUI and IVF, and the emotional and financial reality of trying to have a second child.

At the time, they couldn’t find many podcasts that talked honestly about queer fertility and LGBTQ+ family building—so they made the show they needed.

This is an archival re-release of the episode that started it all, capturing the very beginning: pregnant, overwhelmed, hopeful, and figuring it out as they went.

Archival note: Originally released as Episode 1 of If These Ovaries Could Talk (Pre-TQFP). Audio quality and language reflect the time it was recorded.

🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways

• Queer infertility is real—and often invisible.
• Even without a medical diagnosis, lesbian couples can face long, emotionally taxing fertility journeys.
• Fertility treatment isn’t linear.
• IUI, IVF, switching doctors, and starting over are often part of the process—not signs of failure.
• The donor search can become overwhelming.
• What starts as practical decision-making can quickly turn emotional, ethical, and financially complex.
• This conversation didn’t exist yet—so we created it.
• The podcast began because queer families weren’t hearing their stories reflected anywhere else.

🏳️‍🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

• Robin Hopkins — original co-host of If These Ovaries Could Talk and interviewer for this episode.
• Jaimie and Anne are a married couple living in New York City. They’ve been together for 17 years and married for 13, and are raising their two children (plus their dog). During their own journey through infertility, fertility treatment, and donor conception, Jaimie realized she couldn’t find honest, relatable conversations about queer family building—so she decided to create the show she wished had existed.

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