Episode Description
Rebecca is a mental health counsellor in Australia. Diagnosed at 47 — with level-two autism and ADHD combined type — she shares her story of self-recognition, complex emotions around diagnosis, and the challenges of navigating neurodivergence in both personal and professional life.
Rebecca reflects on masking, internalized ableism, and how people-pleasing tendencies developed as survival strategies. The conversation also explores her work as a counsellor and how parenting neurodivergent children has shaped her own self-understanding.
Topics explored include:
- The slow unmasking process
- How late autism diagnosis reframes childhood memories and identity
- Parenting with empathy
- Avoiding the pitfalls of compliance culture
- The nuanced relationship between sensitivity, empathy, and strength
- Disbelief from healthcare professionals and the impact of diagnostic invalidation
Watch this episode on YouTube.
Rebecca recommends these resources:
Camouflaging Autistic Traits Questionnaire (CAT-Q)
Is This Autism? — A Guide for Clinicians and Everyone Else by Donna Henderson and Sarah Wayland, with Jamell White
The Neurodivergent Woman podcast
Theme music: "Everything Feels New" by Evgeny Bardyuzha.
All episodes written and produced by Kristen Hovet.
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