When It All Goes Wrong, Change Your Expectations

January 10
51 mins

Episode Description

In today’s episode Gen Kelsang Leksang shares her personal journey from a high-powered corporate career to a spiritual life as a Buddhist nun and teacher. Reflecting on her life, she reveals how experiences that once felt like failures were, in fact, profoundly beneficial—shaping her personal development and inner growth. She explains that when life appears to be falling apart, peace and purpose can be found by letting go of attachment, adjusting our expectations, and training the mind in acceptance.

Drawing on the wisdom of the New Kadampa Tradition, Gen Leksang explores how focusing on others, cultivating compassion, and developing inner acceptance can transform suffering into clarity and confidence. This episode offers heartfelt reflections on death, purpose, career pressure, and happiness — showing how even life’s most painful moments can become profound teachers. Insightful, practical, and uplifting, this conversation gently challenges modern ideas of success and invites us to discover a deeper, more stable happiness that comes from within.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction & Career Shift 

02:16 Searching for Purpose 

02:30 Father’s Illness & Death 

03:36 Refuge, Acceptance, and Peace 

05:33 Learning Through Helping Others 

07:20 Redefining Success and Happiness 

08:10 Finding Depth While Living Fully 

12:32 Pressure, Plans, and Life Direction 

15:13 Career Advice for Young People 

17:09Discovering True Motivation 

20:18 Letting Life Evolve Naturally 

26:46 Inner Peace Is Happiness 

28:02 Acceptance When Life Doesn’t Work Out


Book References

In this episode Gen Leksang references the following books by by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso:

How to Solve our Human Problems https://kadampa.org/book/how-to-solve... 

Modern Buddhism https://kadampa.org/book/modern-buddhism 

How to Transform Your Life https://howtotyl.com/ 


Gen Leksang is a senior teacher within the New Kadampa Tradition, an international Buddhist tradition with over a thousand meditation centers worldwide.


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