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Lessons from a Lifetime in Saddlebreds with Dr. Amanda O’Keefe

May 19

57 mins

Episode Description

In this episode of The Long Ride Home, Alex reconnects with fellow Saddlebred rider and amateur exhibitor Dr. Amanda O’Keefe for a thoughtful conversation about horses, confidence, trainer trust, and the lessons that come from a lifetime in the sport.

Alex and Amanda used to ride together at Cricket Hill, and their conversation brings a shared history to the surface, from the influence of their mothers to the memories, horses, and people that shaped their early years in the Saddlebred world.

They discuss how riding changes with age and experience, how confidence is built through preparation, and why trusting the right trainer can make all the difference in a rider’s journey. Amanda also shares stories from the show ring, including catch-riding at Louisville, learning from challenging horses, and the mental strategies she uses to stay focused under pressure.

Throughout the episode, Amanda offers a grounded look at what it means to keep growing as a rider. From choosing the right horse to navigating the ring with intention, she reflects on the lessons that come from years of showing, learning, and staying connected to the people and horses that make the Saddlebred world so meaningful.

Episode Chapters:

00:00 - Alex reconnects with Dr. Amanda O’Keefe

03:40 - Shared history, family ties, and memories from Cricket Hill

09:32 - Managing pressure and staying out of your own head

10:04 - Amanda’s unforgettable catch ride with Prima Ballerina at Louisville

13:17 - Setting goals you can actually control in the show ring

17:03 - Confidence, gratitude, and the horses that challenge you

21:02 - Warming up in the dark and learning to trust the ride

23:10 - Choosing the right horse and trusting your trainers

30:22 - How every season of riding asks something different of you

42:33 - The difference between learning to ride and learning to show

43:23 - How Amanda studies the ring before she shows