Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Behind the Secret Sex Stories with Kathy Kay

Nov 20, 2025
41 mins

Episode Description

Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers with Kathy Kay 




In this episode, I talk with Kathy Kay, host of the Strictly Anonymous podcast and author of Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. We get into how her hit podcast began with Craigslist ads, how she’s collected over 1,200 real-life sex stories, and what she’s learned about desire, shame, and human nature along the way.

Kathy Kay and I dive into the wildest stories from her new book; from 50 gangbangs to secret throuples, and women discovering their sexuality later in life. We talk about how these confessions reveal the truth about what people really want, how she keeps it all anonymous, and why storytelling is the key to normalizing desire without shame.

If you’ve ever been curious about the fantasies people keep hidden or just love hearing real stories that prove no one is as “normal” as they seem, this episode is going to be your new guilty pleasure.

Pre-order The Book: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd


Episode Highlights: 

(00:00) How Strictly Anonymous Confessions Was Born

(09:00) The Stories Behind the Book

(18:00) Shame, Desire, and Owning Your Pleasure

(23:00) Normalizing Nontraditional Relationships

(35:00) Why People Crave Anonymity and Confession


Pre-order The Book: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠


Listen to the Podcast: https://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/


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