Navy SEAL Ray “Cash” Care joins John Lovell for a hilarious, unfiltered, and seriously powerful conversation—covering the moment he almost quit BUD/S, the mindset shift behind “Don’t fear dying—fear not living,” discipline, faith, and why “hustle culture” can turn into a trap. If you’re a man trying to get your life back under control—this one will hit.

In this episode:

• The “Steel Pier” BUD/S moment he almost quit — and what saved him • The mental trick that kept him moving: make the impossible small (“outlast one guy”)

• The mindset shift: “Don’t fear dying—fear not living to your full potential”

• Pastor Hank’s simple prescription that helped him break destructive patterns: pushups until you “don’t want you anymore”

• Why “hustle culture” can be a trap: great 1–2 years, terrible 10 years (and what it costs men)

• Trading “success” for what matters: marriage, kids, presence, and goodness over greatness

• The root fear most men carry: “Am I enough?” and how it shows up in life

• Purpose, discipline, and the hardest habit of all: putting the phone down