In this episode of the Impact Marriage Podcast, hosts Allan and Nicole Blain discuss the essential elements of intimacy in a marriage. They explore seven pillars of intimacy: spiritual, emotional, physical, intellectual, conflict resolution, intentional pursuit, and shared mission. The conversation emphasizes the interconnectedness of these pillars and how they contribute to a fulfilling and God-honoring marriage. The hosts share personal experiences and practical advice to help couples deepen their intimacy and strengthen their relationship.

Who are we?

We’re Allan and Nicole Blain — college sweethearts, now married 33 years, parents of six amazing grown kids, and co-leaders of a thriving, purpose-driven business and ministry. We met as student-athletes (she played volleyball and I played baseball), just 5 days after Nicole's 19th birthday. We were married one year later, five days after she turned 20, on September 12, 1992.

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Chapters:

• 00:00 Introduction to Intimacy in Marriage
• 01:24 Exploring the Seven Pillars of Intimacy
• 03:50 Spiritual Intimacy: The Foundation of Marriage
• 11:33 Emotional Intimacy: Creating Safety and Vulnerability
• 19:40 Physical Intimacy: God's Design for Oneness
• 27:53 The Importance of Intimacy in Marriage
• 32:29 Conflict Resolution and Forgiveness
• 42:02 Intentional Pursuit and Romance
• 48:00 Shared Mission in Marriage

Takeaways:

• Intimacy is multi-faceted, including spiritual, emotional, intellectual, and physical aspects.
• Spiritual intimacy is foundational for a strong marriage.
• Emotional intimacy fosters safety and vulnerability between partners.
• Physical intimacy is God's design for marital oneness.
• Intellectual intimacy involves dreaming and growing together as a couple.
• Conflict resolution is essential for maintaining intimacy and connection.
• Intentional pursuit and romance are necessary to keep the relationship vibrant.
• A shared mission strengthens the bond between spouses and gives purpose to the marriage.
• Couples should prioritize open communication and forgiveness to navigate conflicts.
• Investing in these seven pillars can lead to a thriving and passionate marriage.

Keywords: marriage, intimacy, spiritual intimacy, emotional intimacy, physical intimacy, conflict resolution, romance, shared mission, relationship advice, Christian marriage