Healing After Betrayal Trauma With Tammy Gustafson

Dec 31, 2025
31 mins

Episode Description

In this episode of the Healing Trauma Podcast, guest host Dr. Mark McNear speaks with Tammy Gustafson who shares her personal journey through betrayal trauma and the healing process that followed. As a licensed professional counselor, she discusses the complexities of betrayal, the misconceptions surrounding it, and the importance of understanding betrayal trauma as a legitimate form of trauma. Tammy emphasizes the need for time in the healing process, the significance of emotional regulation, and the role of fun and joy in recovery. She also highlights her professional insights gained from her experiences and the creation of her upcoming book aimed at helping others navigate their healing journey.


Takeaways

Betrayal trauma is a legitimate form of trauma that can overwhelm one's ability to process emotions.

The healing process takes time and cannot be rushed or bypassed.

It's crucial for betrayed partners to understand that the betrayal is not their fault.

Emotional dysregulation is common in betrayal trauma, and support systems are vital for recovery.

Finding joy and fun is an essential part of the healing journey.

Tammy emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing one's worth.

The journey of healing can lead to personal growth and empowerment.

Tammy's upcoming book aims to guide betrayed partners through their healing process.

Healing from betrayal can lead to profound transformation and resilience.


About Our Guest

Tammy Gustafson, MA, LPC, is a trauma-informed

licensed professional counselor, coach, and speaker

with over 15 years of experience. She holds a master’s

degree in counseling and is the founder and CEO of

Betrayal Healing and LiveFree Counseling. Tammy

hosts the annual Betrayal Healing Conference, which

provides compassionate, expert guidance to

thousands of betrayed partners worldwide.


Guest Host: Guest Host: Dr. Mark McNear

https://www.instagram.com/drmarkmcnear/


Tammy's Book:

Broken to Brave: Your Courageous Act of Healing After Intimate Betrayal

https://amzn.to/4s5bZh0

website:https://tammygustafson.com/betrayal-healing/

https://www.instagram.com/tammylgustafson/



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