Series Special Happya Ever After: Who Am I Now? Identity After Loss

March 13
12 mins

Episode Description

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After the death of a partner, grief doesn’t just affect how you feel it can change how you experience yourself.

In this episode of Happya Ever After, Clare Deacon explores the often-unspoken impact of loss on identity, and why so many people find themselves asking the question: Who am I now?

This is for you if you feel unfamiliar to yourself, unsure where you fit, or disconnected from the roles, labels, and sense of self you once held. When the life you shared ends, it can feel as though a version of you has ended too and that can be deeply unsettling.

In this episode, Clare gently explores:

  • Why identity shifts after the death of a partner
  • The loss of shared roles, future plans, and being reflected by another
  • Why not recognising yourself doesn’t mean you’re lost
  • Why identity after loss is something that unfolds, not something you decide

This episode isn’t about reinvention or “finding yourself” quickly.
 It’s about understanding why identity feels uncertain after grief and allowing yourself to be in transition without judgement.

You are not broken.
 You are becoming.

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 🎵 Music by LemonMusicStudio



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