Sometimes it's hard to imagine how we can stay in relationships where there are huge differences–political, religious, or otherwise. In this conversation with my friend Katherine Golub on her podcast Conflict Decoded, I talk about how I’ve worked with the part of myself that just wants to stay safe–to only talk to people who agree with me and see information that confirms my beliefs–to stay in relationships that matter, even when we don’t share the same views. Here’s what I cover:

• How people-pleasing kept me at the church even after my mind and heart had left the building
• The moment I realized, “I think we’re wrong about this,” and how terrifying it was to hold that belief
• How I used scripture to back up my personal beliefs and was punished for it within the church 
• The complexity of discerning who to maintain relationships with despite your differences
• Why safety must come first when moving toward relationships with people that you disagree with

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