What if submission wasn’t about losing yourself — but about knowing yourself deeply?

In this episode I’m joined by Sarah from Subinthecity — submissive, kink therapist, and educator — to explore feminist submission, sub frenzy, and integrative kink through a psychological lens.

We explore:

• What sub frenzy really is — and how to navigate it safely.
• Feminist submission as sovereignty, not passivity.
• Erotic mismatch in D/s dynamics.
• Menstrual cycles and shifting kink desires.
• Shadow work and inner-child integration through power exchange.

Research article: Reflections on a Career Dedicated to the Study of BDSM and Diverse Sexualities

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Stay perverted,

Emma

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