What if male submission wasn’t about giving up power — but about choosing where it belongs?

In this episode we explore the erotic realm of Taylor Ellwood, a submissive, men’s coach, and writer living in a 24/7 female-led dynamic, to explore masculinity, devotion, and sovereign submission through a psychological lens.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why submission must be chosen, not defaulted into.
• The difference between “nice guy” behaviour and genuine devotion.
• Submission as discipline, not self-erasure.
• Masculinity beyond performance and dominance.
• How erotic polarity and meaning shape long-term D/s relationships.

Research article: Perks, problems, and the people who play: A qualitative exploration of dominant and submissive BDSM roles

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Emma

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