#109 What makes a BDSM scene truly work? We talk about limits all the time—but rarely about the things we actually need to feel connected, grounded, and fulfilled. In this episode, Alesandra opens up about her real must-haves for every scene and why yours matter just as much. Reflect on your own and share them with us after listening.

➡️ Free Yes/No/Maybe checklist: https://domsubliving.com/checklist

➡️ Explore our step-by-step courses: https://domsubliving.com/courses