Part 2 - So… What Kind of Funeral Are We Planning?

Oct 8, 2025
34 mins

Episode Description

In Part Two, we bring the day to life. We talk through the elements that shape how a funeral feels — and what happens afterwards.

In this episode:

  • Coffins, caskets & shrouds — what they are, how to choose, and what’s practical for burial vs cremation

  • Flowers, readings, orders of service & photo tributes — the storytelling tools that make it feel like them

  • Music & rituals — simple participation ideas that help grief “land”

  • Eulogies & who speaks — formats, tips, and gentle alternatives

Missed Part One? It sets the foundations: burial vs cremation (plus aquamation), direct cremation (no service/no attendance), service types, venues, who leads, and timing — including why you don’t have to rush and how to split a private farewell and a later memorial.

Content note: We discuss death, grief, and funeral planning. Please take care while listening.

Crisis support (Australia):

  • Emergency: 000 (immediate danger)

  • Lifeline: 13 11 14 — 24/7 crisis support & suicide prevention

  • 13YARN: 13 92 76 — 24/7 crisis support for Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander peoples

  • Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467 — 24/7 phone & online counselling

  • Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 — 24/7 mental health support

  • Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 — 24/7 support for young people (5–25)

If you’re outside Australia, please contact your local emergency number or a local crisis line.

Share your questions or experiences: DM on Instagram @TheDWord or email and we may include answers in a future episode.

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