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👉🏽 My Abuser Emailed Me. Here’s How I Handled It (When Trauma Resurfaces)
Episode Description
This one is personal.
In this episode, I share something that happened in real time… I received an email from someone connected to my childhood abuse.
And it brought up things I thought I had already processed.
I talk about what it actually feels like when old trauma resurfaces.
What happens in your body.
What happens in your mind.
How healing isn’t linear.
And why forgiveness is not something you owe anyone.
This isn’t a polished “look how healed I am” conversation.
It’s real.
It’s layered.
It’s complicated.
Inside this episode I share:
What it feels like when the past reappears unexpectedly
How I handled the email without betraying myself
Why boundaries matter more than being “nice”
The truth about forgiveness
Why healing doesn’t mean you won’t get triggered again
How storytelling has been part of my healing
You don’t owe anyone closure.
You don’t need to be strong all the time.
And you don’t have to perform healing for the world.
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