What Teenage Mothers Really Need - A Psychologist’s PerspectiveTeenage pregnancy is often framed as a social problem, a failure, or a life “ruined.” But what if the real issue isn’t the pregnancy - it’s the stigma, judgement, and low expectations placed on young mothers?

In this episode, I’m joined by Dr Hayley Lugassy, an educational psychologist who became a mother at 15. We explore the psychological impact of teenage pregnancy, the harm caused by shame-based responses from families and professionals, and what truly supports better outcomes for both young mothers and their children.

We discuss teenage motherhood, attachment, stigma, poverty, safeguarding, education pathways, UK benefits, and how investing in young parents can transform lives.

This episode is essential listening for parents, professionals, aspiring psychologists, teachers, and anyone interested in trauma-informed and compassionate approaches to teenage pregnancy.You do not need to be a young parent to find this powerful – this is about how we respond to people at vulnerable turning points in their lives.

⏱️ Timestamps

1. 00:00 Why teenage pregnancy is so often misunderstood
2. 02:50 Falling pregnant at 14 and family conflict
3. 05:39 Judgement from professionals during birth
4. 08:32 What parents should do when their teenage daughter is pregnant
5. 12:11 Reframing “ruined life” narratives
6. 14:38 Poverty, food insecurity and survival
7. 16:21 The UK benefits system and long-term investment
8. 18:26 What gold-standard support could look like
9. 21:50 Why young mothers need mentorship, not surveillance
10. 25:50 Becoming a psychologist after teenage motherhood
11. 29:37 The impact of low expectations
12. 31:29 Practical support available in the UK today

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