Silence is where negotiators accidentally give away money.

AJ and Johnny break down why the hardest part of a negotiation often isn’t knowing what to ask for—it’s resisting the urge to speak when the other person goes quiet. That uncomfortable pause can make you lower your number, over-explain your position, or negotiate against yourself before the other side has said anything at all.

You’ll learn how to anchor confidently, hold eye contact, count through seven seconds of silence, and respond without immediately defending or discounting your ask. Whether you’re negotiating salary, contract terms, or a major purchase, this episode shows how staying calm and quiet can shift the pressure back across the table.

Episode Resources:

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Chapters

00:00 – The two words that cost you leverage
01:00 – Why silence makes people fold
02:30 – The cheapest move in negotiation
03:20 – How anchoring shapes the entire conversation
04:20 – Say your number without apologizing
06:10 – Know your number before you walk in
07:10 – The seven-second silence method
08:00 – What your body should communicate
09:20 – What to say when they finally break
10:35 – Salary negotiation example
14:20 – How to challenge “standard terms”
16:20 – What to do if seven seconds isn’t enough
18:30 – Trading instead of conceding
19:00 – Your silence challenge for the week

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