Brandon sits down with Erica Chidi, writer, producer and health educator, to talk secret trysts, and the thrill of keeping one bedroom a clean, always-ready zone for erotic fun. They dive into Erica’s four-pronged framework for keeping the urgency of intimacy ablaze: letting go of the extra partner in bed, reset your environment, manage pain, and set goals in the bedroom. On this episode, talking it through is the kink, baby!

More about Erica: https://www.ericachidi.com/

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