Teens often say offensive things. So how do adults set healthy boundaries without losing connection?

Teens often push boundaries with sarcasm, edgy jokes, or language that makes adults pause—but what does it actually mean?

In this episode of the Teen Life Podcast, we unpack why teens use humor to test identity, gain social approval, and navigate belonging.

More importantly, we explore how adults can respond in ways that build connection and empathy instead of escalating the moment.

If you’ve ever wondered whether a comment is “just a joke” or something more, this conversation will give you clarity and practical tools to respond with confidence.

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In this episode, we mentioned the following resources:

• Casey, Jones & Hare (2008) – The Adolescent Brain

• https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2475802/
• Center for Teen and Parent Communication: Developing Adolescent Identity
• LIH: Does Humor Explain Why Relationally Aggressive Adolescents Are Popular?
• Parents: How Can I Get My Child to Be Serious When They Need to Be?
• Lisa Damour, PHD: Should I Let My Kid Use Swear Words?
• The New York Times: What Teenagers Are Saying About Cursing
• Teen Life Podcast: Identity Formation

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Podcast Music by: Luke Cabrera & Tobin Hodges

Hosted by: Karlie Duke, Caleb Hatchett & Tobin Hodges

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