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Ever feel like you and your partner just aren’t speaking the same sexual language? You’re not “broken,” you might just be mismatched. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Nicholas Velotta, Head of Relationship Research at Arya and PhD researcher at the University of Washington, to unpack the Erotic Persona Framework—the 4 sexual archetypes that explain why routine sex fizzles, why desire misfires, and how to finally sync with your partner.

We cover:

• 🔑 The 4 Erotic Personas—Romantic, Director, Adventurer, and Connector—and what actually turns each one on.
• ❌ The real reason routine sex kills desire (hint: it’s not frequency).
• 💡 How to spot mismatches before they wreck your connection.
• ❤️ Practical ways to bridge differences and reignite passion—tonight.

This isn’t another tired take on “low vs. high desire.” It’s a brand-new framework backed by research that will change how you see yourself—and your partner—in bed.

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