Episode Description
In this deeply personal and paradigm-shifting episode, Darin sits down with Justin McMillen, founder of Tree House Recovery and architect of one of the most innovative addiction treatment models in the country. What begins as a conversation about Midwestern roots and fatherhood quickly expands into genetics, evolutionary biology, trauma, tribal bonding, and the future of American healthcare.
Justin shares how addiction nearly ended his life — and how a miracle encounter with a former inmate sparked the creation of a radically different recovery model rooted in biology, psychology, and social bonding. From surf therapy to Seal-style team dynamics, Harvard collaborations to a federal endorsement from RFK Jr., this episode explores how addiction may not be weakness — but misdirected high performance.
And the implications go far beyond sobriety. This conversation reframes how we think about chronic disease, mental health, tribal polarization, loneliness, and what it means to be necessary in modern society.
What You'll Learn
00:00:00 – Welcome Justin McMillen: Midwest roots, swimming, and early athletic drive
00:03:07 – Modern abundance, gluttony, and why we're sicker than ever
00:07:11 – Darin's father, sobriety, relapse, and addiction as a symptom
00:12:12 – Justin's dark turning point: living in a garage and losing hope
00:14:21 – The prison miracle: how a former inmate sparked a recovery movement
00:17:03 – Buying the first houses and building community-based sober living
00:19:01 – Why traditional treatment fails: bio-psycho-social imbalance
00:22:10 – Creating a 28-dimension model of health and recovery
00:24:26 – Evolutionary biology and ancestral fitness as addiction medicine
00:26:08 – "Humans are built for bonding" — the social root of addiction
00:27:39 – The genetics of addiction: dopamine polymorphisms and dissatisfaction
00:30:22 – Harvard validation: Dr. John Ratey & Bessel van der Kolk collaboration
00:31:19 – The broken incentive structure in rehab and insurance
00:33:25 – Military partnerships and returning warfighters to operational fitness
00:35:00 – RFK Jr. endorsement and national recognition
00:35:50 – Behavioral health as the future of American medicine
00:39:41 – Peer interviews and tribal acceptance in recovery
00:41:54 – Surf therapy and Seal-inspired team bonding protocols
00:43:20 – The prefrontal cortex, limbic system, and strengthening resilience
00:45:48 – Why being "necessary" is biologically essential to survival
00:47:36 – Tribalism, politics, and our evolutionary need for opposition
00:50:28 – Loneliness in modern cities and the loss of 150-person tribes
00:53:25 – Rebuilding community: start with your neighborhood
00:58:19 – Algorithms, belief reinforcement, and digital tribalism
01:01:07 – Freedom, values, and America's founding psychological architecture
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Find More from Justin McMillen
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Website: treehouserecovery.com
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Instagram: @treehouserecovery
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Facebook: Tree House Recovery
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Book: Fatal Conveniences
Key Takeaway
Addiction isn't weakness. It may be misdirected high performance in the wrong environment. We are wired for bonding, movement, purpose, and tribe. When those disappear, something else will take their place. If we want to solve addiction, and chronic disease, we don't just treat symptoms. We rebuild the tribe.