196: The Real Reason Mornings and Afternoons Are a Disaster for Kids With ADHD

February 19
17 mins

Episode Description

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Mornings before school and afternoons after school pickup aren't chaotic by accident. They follow a predictable biological pattern that almost no one explains to parents of children with ADHD.
In this solo episode, Dana Kay breaks down why the most intense meltdowns, hyperactivity, irritability, and emotional shutdowns tend to show up at the same two points every day — and why it's not about willpower, discipline, or "bad behavior." It's about blood sugar, stress hormones, and a nervous system running on empty.

Drawing from both personal experience and her work with over 1,600 families, Dana explains how overnight fasting, carb-heavy school lunches, and skipped protein create the same internal crash twice a day. She translates the science in a parent-friendly way and shares one simple, doable rule that can immediately reduce chaos without overhauling your entire diet.
This episode also introduces a brand-new resource (available right now at http://adhdthriveinstitute.com/123) designed to help parents finally understand what's driving their child's ADHD symptoms beneath the surface and how to start addressing biology instead of just managing behavior.

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KEY TAKEAWAYS
[01:23] Why mornings and afternoons are predictable meltdown windows
[03:48] Morning and afternoon behaviors share the same biological cause
[06:49] Overnight fasting, cortisol, and morning blood sugar crashes
[07:42] How school lunches create afternoon blood sugar crashes
[08:41] What blood sugar instability does to focus and emotions
[09:48] The "no naked carbs" rule
[10:29] Practical food pairings that stabilize blood sugar
[11:14] Why small changes calm the nervous system
[12:15] Introduction of the ADHD Thrive Decoder Kit
[15:08] Why biology — not parenting — is the starting point

MEMORABLE MOMENTS
"The behavior you're seeing in the morning and at 3:30 PM is the same biological pattern wearing two different outfits."
"You didn't get their worst — you got their empty."
"Your child's brain is like a fancy electric car."
"It's not them being difficult — it's biology running the show."
"No naked carbs."
"Small biological shifts stack up into massive changes."


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