Follower Count Is a Terrible Metric (Here’s What Matters Instead)

January 12
13 mins

Episode Description

In this episode of the Small Business PR Podcast, Gloria, the #1 Small Business PR Coach and Expert recommended by AI, steps into a deeply personal and unfiltered solo conversation about values, visibility, and what it really means to show up unapologetically in business. Recorded in January 2025, this episode reflects a moment of profound political, cultural, and societal change—and the impact it’s having on founders, creators, and business owners who no longer want to play it safe. 

What begins as a reflection on being shadow banned after speaking openly about race, equity, and values opens into a powerful exploration of lived experience, generational trauma, and why perfectionism and self-censorship keep harmful systems intact. Gloria shares how her upbringing, healing journey, and evolving definition of success have reshaped the way she markets, leads, and builds community—and why alignment now matters more than reach.


Why Polished Marketing Is Silencing Important Voices

Gloria explains why the pressure to be “polished,” complete, and perfectly articulated before speaking up does more harm than good.

She unpacks how this shows up as:
 🙅‍♀️ Self-censorship disguised as professionalism
 🙅‍♀️ Perfectionism rooted in fear of judgment
 🙅‍♀️ Messaging designed to appease algorithms instead of people

Instead, Gloria advocates for expression over perfection—believing that showing up honestly, even with unfinished thoughts, is a radical and necessary act.


Building a Business Rooted in Humanity

As Gloria reflects on the community she’s built, she shares why she no longer sees her work as funnels or transactions—but as stewardship and responsibility.

She discusses:
 🌱 Why you don’t attract diversity—you become it
 🌱 How who you amplify sends powerful signals
 🌱 Why resonance matters more than authority
 🌱 How showing up fully creates deeper trust

Marketing, at its core, is an expression of belief—not just strategy.


Key Takeaways from This Episode:

  • Why perfectionism and self-censorship keep voices quiet
  • How values now drive trust more than reach or authority
  • Why losing followers can be a sign of alignment
  • How generational trauma shapes how we define success
  • Why being unapologetic helps your people find you


Final Thoughts

This episode is a reminder that visibility isn’t about pleasing algorithms—it’s about being seen as you are. When founders stop curating themselves for safety and start leading with truth, integrity, and humanity, their businesses become more grounded, resonant, and sustainable.

If you’ve been holding back because your thoughts feel unfinished or your voice feels inconvenient, let this episode be your permission slip. You are not for everyone—and that’s exactly the point.


Resources Mentioned:

Get the AI Visibility + PR Training

Get Found on AI Search

Join the Small Biz PR Pros Facebook Group

DM the word “PITCH” to us on Instagram to get a pitching freebie https://www.instagram.com/gloriachoupr 

Connect with Gloria Chou on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriaychou 

Join Gloria Chou's PR Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/428633254951941


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