Stop Faking Sleep to Avoid Sex (Let’s Talk About It)

May 26
28 mins

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Episode Description

In this livestream recorded on April 23, 2026, I’m diving into one of the most common and confusing issues in relationships: what happens when your sex life changes over time. We’re talking about desire mismatch, low libido, and why the “honeymoon phase” passion doesn’t stay the same forever(it’s completely normal). I also break down the real factors that impact sex drive, from stress and body image to emotional connection and communication, and how couples can start having honest conversations about intimacy again without blame or shame. This is about understanding your body, your partner, and how to rebuild connection in a more intentional way.


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ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 


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Chapters:

00:00 The Desire Discrepancy Nobody Talks About

01:19 Why Every Long-Term Relationship Hits This Wall

02:37 Why Stress, Body Image and Life Kill The Mood

04:29 Are People Actually Having the Sex They Want?

05:38 The Blood Flow Factor Nobody Talks About

07:12 Is Watching Romantic (Ethical) Porn Together Healthy?

10:44 The Case for Roleplay and Alter Egos

14:48 "My Wife Has Zero Sex Drive" The Most Common Question

17:55 Advice for a 35-Year-Old Starting Her Sexual Debut

19:24 Unlearning Shame from a Religious Background

22:02 Rewriting "Virginity" as Your Sexual Debut

23:30 Ask Yourself This Before Your Next Date Night

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