#80-She lives a double life (ethically) in the swinger lifestyle - meet Rose (40F)

Jul 24, 2025
44 mins

Episode Description

In this exciting interview, I chat with Rose, a married mom of two who leads a double life in the swinger's community. We discuss our experiences at Oasis, how we met, and the unique dynamics of Rose's marriage, which operates on a 'don't ask, don't tell' basis. Rose opens up about her journey from a strict Christian upbringing to finding freedom and self-acceptance in the sex-positive lifestyle. We dive deep into topics like BDSM, the importance of communication in relationships, and how to navigate the swinger's scene as a newcomer. Full of laughs, surprising revelations, and heartfelt moments, this episode offers a candid look at living unapologetically and finding your tribe in the sex-positive community.

 

00:00 Introduction and Personal Connection

01:32 Rose's Background and Lifestyle

02:11 Navigating Ethical Non-Monogamy

04:11 Journey into BDSM

07:54 Rediscovering the Lifestyle

11:17 Living Unapologetically

17:13 Toronto Unicorn's Journey

22:04 Finding My Tribe: Embracing Non-Judgmental Connections

22:40 Overcoming Stigma: A Journey to Sex Positivity

24:48 Understanding BDSM: Different Dynamics and Personal Growth

28:45 Exploring Bisexuality: Situational Attraction

32:57 Navigating the Lifestyle: Advice for Newcomers

35:41 Creating Community: Intrusive Question Game and Meetups

38:44 Balancing Marriage and Lifestyle: Open Communication

41:36 Final Thoughts and Future Plans

**description and chapters written with the help of AI**

Videos mentioned in this episode:

1. Don't ask, Don't tell (way to manage jealousy in ethnical non-monogamy): https://youtu.be/9gWyoBWPmVg

2. Sex club tour videos (Toronto Canada): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLo4CCCnXmwlDcg2K7NyojoCK5AvixDikc

3. Advice videos about the sex positive and swinger world: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLo4CCCnXmwlDvBYgTVIwtN4APWWQaFAN6

4. Live Unapologetically Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1uo66GgEGjqR9yfHgxQdwt?si=badb5334f8ce4a4c

5. Story time video about not having sex for 10 years: https://youtu.be/sqzVNf-lzwU

6. Explaining the Daddy Dom dynamic: https://youtu.be/_dsoS4cVw68

7. Dear Diary podcast with TorontoUnicorn: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Tn980uPzKR9UYOueV42cF?si=ff261a3820c64638

8. Playlist: Advice for singles who want to go to Oasis but don't want to go alone: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLo4CCCnXmwlAPU6_cCOqUR6oJjIx30sak

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