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When “You Owe Him Sex” Is Abuse w/ Dr. Danielle Kramer | S2E9

Nov 4, 2025
42 mins

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Episode Description

If you’ve ever said yes to sex when every part of you wanted to say no, that’s not “being a good partner,” It’s coercion. 

Coercion is abuse.

Lisa sits down with certified sex therapist and clinical sexologist Dr. Danielle Kramer to talk about sexual coercion, consent, and how entitlement destroys intimacy. They unpack the cultural conditioning that teaches men to pursue and women to comply — and how that conditioning turns connection into control.

Dr. Kramer breaks down the difference between persuasion and coercion, how purity culture fuels sexual shame, and what healing looks like when you’ve been taught your body is an obligation.

This conversation will make you rethink what real consent and intimacy actually mean — and remind you that sex isn’t something done to you. It’s something done with you.

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