Trauma Bonding, Self-Sabotage, and Deep Healing with Karen Whelan

February 27
47 mins

Episode Description

Meet my guest:

Returning to continue our powerful conversation is Karen Whelan — psychotherapist, M.A. in Spirituality, five-time international best-selling author, global speaker, and founder of SOULution Therapy. With more than 14 years of experience guiding individuals, couples, teens, and organizations through transformational healing, Karen blends research, spirituality, and deep psychological insight to help people reconnect with their inherent worth and inner power.

 

In this episode:

In Part 2 of our conversation, we go even deeper into the roots of trauma and self-hate, exploring the concept of the “God-shaped hole” — the internal void created when we disconnect from our inherent value. Karen shares how this unhealed space often manifests as self-sabotage, trauma-bonded relationships, addiction, overachievement, or a persistent sense of emptiness.

 

We also discuss the profound ripple effect of individual healing, the transformative power of Ho’oponopono and the work of Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len, and insights from leaders like Gabor Maté and Viktor Frankl. This episode invites you to move beyond surface-level self-care into deep self-love — the kind that repairs, reconnects, and reshapes not only your inner world, but the way you experience everything around you. Quote/Piece of Advice: Without connection to self, this world that we have to navigate becomes too much.

 

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Website: www.soukutiontherapy.com

 

To connect with your host Kat:

@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelli

 

My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com

 

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