She Hugged 10,000 Strangers (and Wrote a Memoir)

July 27
30 mins

Episode Description

How do you turn a life-changing experience into a memoir readers can't put down?

In this episode, author Melinda Lee Schmidt shares the story behind The Rebel Hugger and how a simple idea—asking strangers for permission to hug them—became a powerful memoir about connection, boundaries, belonging, and self-worth.

Melinda takes us behind the scenes of her writing process, explaining how she transformed a deeply personal journey into a compelling story. We also discuss the realities of self-publishing, working with a book coach, navigating Amazon KDP, and the book marketing strategies that have helped her reach readers—from podcast interviews and newsletters to the surprisingly effective practice of simply telling people about her book.

Whether you're writing a memoir, considering self-publishing, or looking for practical book marketing advice, this conversation is full of inspiration and actionable insights.

In this episode, you'll learn:

  • How to turn personal experiences into a compelling memoir
  • Why vulnerability is essential in memoir writing
  • The biggest lessons Melinda learned from self-publishing
  • How working with a book coach improved her book
  • Book marketing strategies that actually work for indie authors

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