The Q&R podcast exists to ask the questions that many are thinking—but few feel safe enough to say out loud.

And today, we’re talking about something that has started to feel discouraging for so many people: dating.

In a world of endless options and constant swiping, more and more people are realizing—they’re exhausted. Tired of the apps. Tired of the ambiguity. Tired of feeling like everyone is available but no one is committed.

Dating has become confusing and fragile. And even in Christian spaces, singleness can feel like a problem to solve instead of a season of empowerment.

So in this episode, we’re asking: Why does dating feel so hard right now? What actually broke it?

And what does Scripture say about what singleness and dating are really for?