Taylor said it best — “I was the chosen one, I was the eldest daughter.” And every eldest daughter everywhere felt that in her bones.

In this episode, Sarah and Whitney dive into what it really means to grow up as the responsible one — the fixer, the peacekeeper, the emotional glue — and how those patterns quietly follow us into adulthood and motherhood. From perfectionism and control to guilt when we finally rest, we’re unpacking it all.

You’ll laugh, nod, and maybe cry a little as we talk about how to stop carrying everything and start letting yourself be cared for, too. Because you don’t have to earn your worth by holding it all together.