S01E04 Stop Self-Sabotage Forever: The 2,400-Year-Old Secret That Actually Works

Oct 22, 2025
14 mins

Episode Description

Are you tired of getting in your own way? Do you make the same self-defeating choices over and over, knowing better but unable to stop? You're not broken—you're just running on autopilot.

Host: Stef Becker (Sadashiva)

In this breakthrough episode, Stef Becker (Sadashiva) reveals why 95% of your life is controlled by subconscious patterns and shares a 2,400-year-old method that ancient masters used to break free from mental prison.

🎯 IN THIS EPISODE:

  1. Why your mind controls you (and the ancient secret to taking back command)
  2. The difference between "pain patterns" that trap you and "clarity patterns" that liberate you
  3. The ART™ Method: 3 simple steps to interrupt self-sabotaging patterns in real-time
  4. How this practice connects to your deepest life purpose and Soul Contract

📺 PREFER TO WATCH?

This episode is also available as a video on YouTube with enhanced visuals and chapters:

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📝 THIS WEEK'S PRACTICE:

Stop fighting yourself and start commanding your mind. Apply the ART™ Method (Awareness → Reframe → Transformation) to the very next self-sabotaging thought you have today.

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🔗 RESOURCES MENTIONED:

The Enneagram Matrix™ Test (Free 5-in-1 Personality Blueprint)

As mentioned in the show, your first step is to get your map. Discover your psychological and spiritual blueprint.

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The ART™ Method (Awareness → Reframe → Transformation)

The practical instruction manual for stopping self-sabotage at its source and finally living the life you actually want.

Learn the ART™ Method

Pi9™ Purpose Intelligence® Program

A 20-month personalized journey designed for YOUR Enneagram type. Integrates The Enneagram Matrix, Yoga Sutras, and AI guidance.

Explore the Pi9™ Program

Valley of Guardians Community

Private community for those who've broken free from generic self-help.

Join the Community

🎙️ ASK STEF A QUESTION:

Have a question about a pattern you're trying to break? I’d love to answer it live on a future episode!

Submit your question here

🌐 CONNECT:

  1. Website: enneagrammatrix.com
  2. LinkedIn: Stef Becker Sadashiva
  3. Instagram: @stefbecker.sadashiva

👤 ABOUT YOUR HOST:

Stef Becker (Sadashiva) is the creator of Pi9™ Purpose Intelligence® and The Enneagram Matrix™ system. As an IEA Certified Enneagram Teacher, clinical hypnosis practitioner, and CEO since 2009, he uniquely bridges worldly professional success with deep spiritual practice. A devoted disciple of Gurumatha Amma since 2012, Stef has practiced classical yoga for 25+ years, studying Patanjali's Yoga Sutras, the Bhagavad Gita, and Vedic mantras.

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