Many dads are winning at work — and quietly losing at home.

In this episode, Jon Hord joins Jey Young for a raw conversation about modern fatherhood, identity, and the pressure men feel to provide while still longing to be present. They unpack why so many fathers feel exhausted, disconnected, or angry — and how fear, unprocessed emotions, and outdated beliefs about manhood shape how we show up at home.

This conversation challenges dads to move from being providers to becoming intentional leaders — at home, in relationships, and within themselves.

This episode covers:

• Why dads often feel like they’re failing at home

• The difference between being available and being present

• How fear shows up as anger in parenting

• Why identity matters more than effort

• The power of feedback from your kids

• Small daily changes that create long-term impact

This episode is about slowing down — not giving up.

00:00 – The Exhaustion of Modern Fatherhood
07:48 – Fear and Identity in Parenting
12:12 – Shifting From Provider to Leader
19:13 – Why Feedback From Kids Matters
25:50 – Presence vs. Absence at Home
34:10 – Unlearning Limiting Beliefs
42:33 – Practical Advice for Young DadsTakeaways

• Many dads succeed professionally but feel disconnected at home

• Fear often drives anger and frustration in parenting

• Fatherhood requires an identity shift, not just more effort

• Being present matters more than being perfect

• Feedback from children is essential for growth

• Unprocessed emotions leak into family dynamics

• Small, consistent changes compound over time

• Asking kids how you’re doing builds trust and connection

• Time with children is limited — intentionality matters

• Continuous self-improvement strengthens fatherhood