If it feels like every conversation with your teen turns into a debate… you’re not alone.

In this episode, Dr. Cam flips the script on what “talking back” really means. What if your teen’s arguing isn’t disrespect… but development? What if those debates are actually signs of growing critical thinking, identity formation, and moral reasoning?

You’ll learn why shutting down arguments with “because I said so” may create more power struggles, not fewer—and how to transform daily battles into opportunities to build confidence, connection, and real-life skills.

If you’re tired of feeling like the bad guy every time your teen pushes back, this episode will help you respond with clarity, authority, and calm—without losing your leadership.

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

• Why teen arguing is often a sign of healthy brain development—not defiance

• The hidden cost of “because I said so” parenting

• How to separate disagreement from disrespect

• The difference between debatable topics and non-negotiable boundaries

• Phrases that keep conversations open without giving up authority

• How healthy arguing prepares teens to resist peer pressure and advocate for themselves

 

RELATED EPISODES IN THIS SERIES

This episode is part of the series:

“7 Teen Behaviors Parents Often Punish That Are Actually Signs of Healthy Development.”

Be sure to check out:

• Episode 269: Attitude, eye rolls, and tone as signs of developing nervous systems

• Episode 271: Why teens resist chores (missing skills vs. laziness)

• Upcoming: Acting selfish and entitled as healthy development

RESOURCE MENTIONED

The COLLABORATE Method™ Parenting Program
A step-by-step system for parents who are tired of constant power struggles and second-guessing themselves.

Inside, you’ll learn how to:

• Stay in charge without escalating

• Allow disagreements without losing authority

• Respond with clarity instead of reacting in frustration

Learn more at:
https://www.askdrcam.com/collaboratemethod

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EPISODE CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction to Healthy Development Behaviors
01:18 Why Arguing Feels So Frustrating
03:56 Arguing as Executive Function Development
06:36 Teaching Respectful Disagreement
09:51 Debatable vs. Non-Negotiable Topics
12:09 The COLLABORATE Method™

ABOUT THE SHOW

The Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell, an adolescent psychologist and certified parenting coach, this podcast offers practical parenting strategies, expert advice, and real-world insights to help you build a stronger relationship with your teen and support their emotional growth.

Whether you’re struggling with teenage behavior or looking to improve communication, each episode provides actionable tools to make parenting teens easier—and more connected.

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