Wired for Connection: How to Understand and ENJOY Those We Love with Marita Littauer
Episode Description
In this insightful conversation, host Anna McLaughlin sits down with personality expert Marita Littauer to explore the four classical personality types and how understanding them can transform our relationships—especially during the busy holiday season. Marita, who grew up immersed in personality work through her mother Florence Littauer's legacy, shares practical wisdom on identifying personality types through visible clues and adjusting our approach to honor how others are wired.
This episode is a masterclass in seeing people as God created them—not as we wish they were. Whether you're navigating family gatherings, workplace dynamics, or marriage, Marita offers hope-filled tools rooted in Romans 12:18: "If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men." Learn how to give the gift of understanding to those you love most, and discover how embracing personality differences can lead to deeper connection, less conflict, and more peace in your most important relationships.
About the Guest
Marita Littauer Tedder is a multifaceted author, speaker, and entrepreneur based in Lubbock, Texas. With over 30 years of experience, she has dedicated her career to empowering individuals, particularly women, to embrace their authentic selves and live fulfilling lives. Growing up as the daughter of renowned speaker and author Florence Littauer, Marita was immersed in personality work from age 9, traveling with her mother and eventually carrying forward the family legacy. She brings unique insights into identifying personalities through visible clues and applying this knowledge to improve relationships. Through her writings, speaking engagements, and entrepreneurial ventures, Marita exemplifies a life of purpose, resilience, and continuous growth, remaining committed to inspiring others to live authentically and with intention.
Key Points
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The Four Personality Types
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Identifying Personalities Through Visible Clues
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The Arrangement Matters
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Marriage and Relationships
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Growth and Maturity
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Practical Application
Scriptures Mentioned
Romans 12:18 - "If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men."
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This verse forms the foundation of Marita's teaching
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Three parts: "If possible" (God's disclaimer), "so far as it depends on you" (we control ourselves, not others), "be at peace with all men" (the goal)
Books and Resources Mentioned
Books:
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Wired That Way by Marita Littauer (includes chapters on workplace applications, visible clues, and living in your strengths) - https://a.co/d/bxDv86I
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The Spirit-Controlled Temperament by Tim LaHaye (the book that started Florence Littauer's journey) - https://a.co/d/ah6wL1l
Assessments:
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Wired That Way Personality Profile - https://thepersonalities.com/product/wired-that-way-online-profile
Connect with Marita
Personality Resources:https://thepersonalities.com
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MUSIC CREDITS
Theme music: Brave New World
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Artist: Fantoms
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Audio source: Jamendo
Artist: Aliaksei Yukhnevich
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