Tolú joins for an unfiltered conversation about identity, culture, and navigating fame as a Nigerian woman in America.

Tolú opens up about her experience on Netflix, including her time on The Trust and Perfect Match, where she became one of the most talked-about personalities. She reflects on winning money on The Trust, the backlash that followed, and the unexpected criticism she received from both Black Americans and Africans online.

The conversation dives deep into growing up Nigerian in the U.S., code-switching, name pronunciation, and the pressure of representing culture on a global stage. Tolú shares stories from her childhood in New York and Houston, being labeled an “African booty scratcher,” and learning when to hide, defend, or fully embrace her identity.

She also discusses faith, family, and how her parents supported her during one of the darkest moments of her life after the show aired. From handling online hate to reclaiming pride in her Yoruba heritage, this episode is a raw look at resilience, self-acceptance, and standing firm in who you are.

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