When empathy is labeled weakness, humanity is at risk. A trauma therapist unpacks faith, fear, moral injury, and the cost of silencing compassion.

In this powerful and deeply compassionate episode of Not That Girl Anymore, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillon addresses a growing and unsettling cultural narrative: the idea that empathy is weakness, manipulation, or even sin. Speaking from both clinical expertise and lived experience, Dawn unpacks how empathy has been distorted—particularly in faith-based spaces—and why framing compassion as moral failure causes real psychological, spiritual, and collective harm. This episode explores the difference between empathy and agreement, discernment and fear, obedience and humanity. Dawn connects empathy to nervous system attunement, moral injury, and trauma, revealing how suppressing compassion trains people to distrust their own conscience and disconnect from their bodies. With honesty and humility, she shares her own story of being taught to override love in the name of faith—and the profound healing that began when she trusted her empathy again. This conversation is for anyone wrestling with faith, deconstruction, moral injury, spiritual trauma, or the exhaustion of trying to stay human in a hardened world. If you feel tender, conflicted, or deeply affected by suffering—and have been told that means you’re weak—this episode is a grounding reminder: empathy is not a flaw. It is wisdom, humanity, and courage.