Domestic violence is a pervasive issue that disproportionately affects women, and when coupled with narcissistic abuse, it takes on an even more insidious nature. In today's episode, I am joined by Laura Richards, an international podcaster, #1 bestselling author, and speaker dedicated to empowering women. Through her global podcast, "That's Where I'm At," Laura has become a beacon of hope for survivors of narcissistic abuse. She talks about her transition from survivor to advocate, uncovering the insidious nature of narcissistic abuse within domestic violence, its profound impact on women, and the crucial steps toward breaking free from these toxic relationships. This conversation challenges our perceptions of "normal" in relationships. It highlights the importance of personal growth and community support, offering valuable insights for those seeking to escape narcissistic abuse and thrive beyond it

Timestamps

[03:39] About Laura Richards

[08:47]Women are trained to be co-dependent

[11:46] Taking the time to think about our lives and trauma

[13:47] Laura’s narcissistic relationship

[17:42] Red flags that Laura boldly painted green

[22:11] Times when Laura realized her ex-husband was narcissistic

[28:36] How Laura got out of the narcissistic relationship

[35:00] Tuning into ourselves

[43:15] Advice to women going through narcissistic relationships

Notable Quotes

• “If nothing changed in your life right now, are you happy? Would you be happy like this for the rest of your life?.” - Laura Richards [07:47]
• “When you are in abuse for a long time, you don’t have the clarity in your brain to even know what’s going on.” - Laura Richards [15:18]
• “Once you see the matrix, you can’t unsee it.” - Debbie Harrell [28:18]
• “You don’t have to do exactly what the world thinks is normal, do what is best for you.” - Laura Richards [47:00]

Resources Mentioned

Book: Married To A “Nice” Guy by Laura Richards: https://www.amazon.com/Married-Nice-Guy-Getting-Narcissistic/dp/B0D73PT1GB

National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/

Helping Survivors https://helpingsurvivors.org/

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