Why do so many women struggle to find emotionally available men — and what do they often misunderstand about how men approach love and commitment?

In this episode of Natalie Saves the World, I sit down with dating and relationship coach Jonathon Aslay to uncover the truth about modern relationships from a man’s perspective.

We cover:

• What women often get wrong about men and commitment
• Why emotional availability matters more than chemistry
• What men often look for vs. what women look for — and why focusing only on attraction or status keeps us stuck
• How childhood wounds, divorce, and cultural pressures shape dating today
• The role of plastic surgery and unrealistic expectations in modern love
• Why self-love is the foundation of a healthy relationship
• Jonathon’s personal journey through 100+ first dates and recovery, and how it shaped his coaching

Jonathon shares insights from 20,000+ hours of coaching women, helping them spot red flags, lean into green flags, and shift toward the values that truly build lasting partnerships.

✨ Connect with Jonathon:

📖 Book: What the Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?

🌐 Website: jonathonaslay.com

▶️ YouTube: Jonathon Aslay

📸 Instagram: @jonathonaslay