What if your drive to “do everything right” isn’t helping your migraines — but quietly keeping them alive?

In this episode of Migraine Heroes Podcast, host Diane Ducarme explores the hidden link between perfectionism and migraine pain — and why the very strategies you use to stay in control may be keeping your nervous system stuck in threat mode.

Perfectionism isn’t just a personality trait. For migraine brains, it’s often a learned survival pattern, one that keeps stress hormones high, pain thresholds low, and recovery just out of reach.

This episode gently dismantles the myth that healing requires flawless discipline — and replaces it with something far more effective: flexibility, safety, and nervous-system trust.

In this episode, you'll learn:

🧠 Three specific ways perfection thinking triggers and sustains migraine attacks beyond generic “stress,” into precise nervous-system reactions

🧠 How perfectionism reshapes your brain’s pain and threat pathways over time, making migraines more frequent and harder to break

🧠 Practical, neuroscience-aligned strategies to soften rigid patterns, restore flexibility, and reduce migraine frequency without self-blame or pressure

You’ll also discover why migraine brains don’t respond to force, discipline, or constant vigilance but to rhythm, safety, and permission to be human.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right and still getting migraines… this episode offers a different, kinder way forward.

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References:

1. Perfectionism and Stress in Psychopathology (Hewitt & Flett, 2002): This foundational paper explains how perfectionistic traits amplify stress responses and emotional dysregulation, increasing vulnerability to chronic psychological and physical conditions—including stress-sensitive disorders like migraine. Read more here.
2. A Systems Neuroscience Approach to Migraine (Brennan & Pietrobon, 2018): This review reframes migraine as a systems-level brain disorder involving sensory processing, stress circuits, and network instability, helping explain why cognitive and emotional stressors can escalate migraine attacks. Read more here.
3. Pain Catastrophizing and Pain Outcomes (Severeijns et al., 2001): This study shows that catastrophizing thoughts independently predict higher pain intensity, disability, and psychological distress, highlighting how mental patterns can directly amplify pain perception beyond physical impairment. Learn more here.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not substitute for providing medical advice. Always consult your healthcare professional before making any health-related decisions.

For women, men, and children who suffer from migraine disease, Migraine Heroes is your go-to resource for understanding, managing, and overcoming migraine attacks.

We cover all types of migraines and related headaches, including primary and secondary migraines, chronic migraines, and cluster migraines. We dive deep into the complexities of migraine with aura and migraine without aura, as well as rarer forms like hemiplegic migraine, retinal migraine, and acephalgic migraine (silent migraine). Our discussions also extend to cervicogenic headaches, ice pick headaches, and pressure headaches, which often mimic migraine or contribute to overall migraine burden.