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You'll learn about covert abusive communication that takes away your power. And you'll discover how to pinpoint the specific toxic behaviors, such as narcissistic abuse and verbal abuse, before you are dragged into a psychological game so deep you come out a shell of your former self.

Love and Abuse is the official podcast of The M.E.A.N. Workbook, an assessment and healing guide to help you evaluate the emotionally abusive and manipulative patterns in your relationship. Get the guide that will tell you exactly what's happening in your relationship over at loveandabuse.com.

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again","when-you-find-yourself-crawling-back-to-them-over-and-over-again","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/099_-_When_you_find_yourself_crawling_back_to_them_over_and_over_again.mp3?dest-id=1025474",40225542,2497,"2022-08-02T23:00:22Z",99,{"_60":644,"_44":645,"_46":646,"_42":647,"_74":75,"_76":648,"_78":649,"_80":650,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":651},"ed20474c-780a-4a24-9c56-0f7ba1e0c5c3","LAA Insights - Learning what attracts the hurtful people","laa-insights-learning-what-attracts-the-hurtful-people","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/098_-_LAA_Insights_-_Learning_what_attracts_the_hurtful_people.mp3?dest-id=1025474",20565975,1227,"2022-07-19T19:20:50Z",98,{"_60":653,"_44":654,"_46":655,"_42":656,"_74":75,"_76":657,"_78":658,"_80":659,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":660},"24ebd899-5057-497e-b542-08bf62cc435f","LAA Insights - Is he right about me being the 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manipulation?","can-depression-be-used-for-manipulation","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/095_-_Can_depression_be_used_for_manipulation.mp3?dest-id=1025474",30018916,1849,"2022-04-20T00:26:19Z",95,{"_60":680,"_44":681,"_46":682,"_42":683,"_74":75,"_76":684,"_78":685,"_80":686,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":687},"4de04f3a-92cf-4e9d-b417-919dec67b81b","The abuser that sneaks their way into your heart and life in order to lock you in to a controlling relationship","the-abuser-that-sneaks-their-way-into-your-heart-and-life-in-order-to-lock-you-in-to-a-controlling-relationship","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/094_-_The_abuser_that_sneaks_their_way_into_your_heart_and_life_in_order_to_lock_you_in_to_a_controlling_relationship.mp3?dest-id=1025474",46687881,2892,"2022-03-10T22:48:08Z",94,{"_60":689,"_44":690,"_46":691,"_42":692,"_74":75,"_76":693,"_78":694,"_80":695,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":696},"a57f433c-3b6c-4b2c-a4af-bbc1797f9549","Can you find yourself after they stop 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new normal","letting-hurtful-words-or-threatening-comments-become-the-new-normal","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/075_-_Letting_hurtful_words_or_threatening_comments_become_the_new_normal.mp3?dest-id=1025474",36357402,2249,"2021-05-18T23:05:53Z",75,{"_60":860,"_44":861,"_46":862,"_42":863,"_74":75,"_76":864,"_78":865,"_80":866,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":867},"e5aeddb1-588a-4981-803e-15a21992c838","Six reasons you may feel guilty about leaving an emotionally abusive person","six-reasons-you-may-feel-guilty-about-leaving-an-emotionally-abusive-person","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/074_-_Six_reasons_you_may_feel_guilty_about_leaving_an_emotionally_abusive_person.mp3?dest-id=1025474",52133704,3235,"2021-04-30T20:39:28Z",74,{"_60":869,"_44":870,"_46":871,"_42":872,"_74":75,"_76":873,"_78":874,"_80":875,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":876},"9d3e8af5-cd64-4f02-b3e8-481ab7f75b9a","Don't let emotional abuse take your decisions 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behavior?","is-it-reactive-abuse-or-a-normal-response-to-emotionally-abusive-behavior","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/071_-_Is_it_reactive_abuse_or_a_normal_response_to_emotionally_abusive_behavior.mp3?dest-id=1025474",32411853,2002,"2021-03-18T00:46:43Z",71,{"_60":896,"_44":897,"_46":898,"_42":899,"_74":75,"_76":900,"_78":901,"_80":902,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":903},"8f9e63f7-bba9-4531-9a9d-ca4974464989","What is emotional abuse? How do I know when it's time to leave? And other important questions.","what-is-emotional-abuse-how-do-i-know-when-its-time-to-leave-and-other-important-questions","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/070_-_What_is_emotional_abuse_and_how_do_I_know_when_its_time_to_leave_-_Interview.mp3?dest-id=1025474",56814957,3524,"2021-03-12T00:50:39Z",70,{"_60":905,"_44":906,"_46":907,"_42":908,"_74":75,"_76":909,"_78":910,"_80":911,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":912},"77491718-d494-402e-b1de-6dc115eb9662","Can you be in a toxic relationship for so long there's no turning back?","can-you-be-in-a-toxic-relationship-for-so-long-theres-no-turning-back","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/069_-_Can_you_be_in_a_toxic_relationship_for_so_long_theres_no_turning_back.mp3?dest-id=1025474",25866007,1566,"2021-02-17T14:56:39Z",69,{"_60":914,"_44":915,"_46":916,"_42":917,"_74":75,"_76":918,"_78":667,"_80":919,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":920},"a341caf5-b690-433c-be80-a8c26625f0d6","Do they benefit from your response to their hurtful behavior?","do-they-benefit-from-your-response-to-their-hurtful-behavior","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/068_-_Do_they_benefit_from_your_response_to_their_hurtful_behavior.mp3?dest-id=1025474",38332976,"2021-02-03T22:05:50Z",68,{"_60":922,"_44":923,"_46":924,"_42":925,"_74":75,"_76":926,"_78":927,"_80":928,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":929},"b9621796-e81b-4d4f-bbcc-2d7b7efdfeeb","The slow disintegration of the deepest part of who you are","the-slow-disintegration-of-the-deepest-part-of-who-you-are","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/067_-_The_slow_disintegration_of_the_deepest_part_of_who_you_are.mp3?dest-id=1025474",27687804,1655,"2021-01-10T03:31:09Z",67,{"_60":931,"_44":932,"_46":933,"_42":934,"_74":75,"_76":935,"_78":936,"_80":937,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":938},"349e5f11-1eaf-47ea-8c9a-3f52fec7cda9","The guilt from believing you could have done 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next?","if-youve-tried-everything-to-stop-the-hurtful-behavior-whats-next","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/064_-_If_youve_tried_everything_to_stop_the_hurtful_behavior_whats_next_.mp3?dest-id=1025474",49577159,3072,"2020-11-21T04:07:30Z",64,{"_60":958,"_44":959,"_46":960,"_42":961,"_74":75,"_76":962,"_78":963,"_80":964,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":965},"9662cf3a-ef0a-486c-98af-8fb54bcd5d6d","Sometimes things need to be perfectly lined up to make the big decisions about the relationship","sometimes-things-need-to-be-perfectly-lined-up-to-make-the-big-decisions-about-the-relationship","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/063_-_Sometimes_things_need_to_be_perfectly_lined_up_to_make_the_big_decisions_about_the_relationship.mp3?dest-id=1025474",50097920,3098,"2020-11-04T21:59:21Z",63,{"_60":967,"_44":968,"_46":969,"_42":970,"_74":75,"_76":971,"_78":972,"_80":973,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":974},"c8097a7f-78c1-425e-9c2d-adb1ecbe0535","Understanding the addict in the 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you","how-the-emotional-abuser-takes-your-empowerment-tools-away-from-you","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/060__-_How_the_emotional_abuser_takes_your_empowerment_tools_away_from_you.mp3?dest-id=1025474",16136882,986,"2020-09-10T00:15:19Z",60,{"_60":993,"_44":994,"_46":995,"_42":996,"_74":75,"_76":997,"_78":998,"_80":999,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1000},"2222d58b-68e1-48b3-816d-50889de29717","Glossing over the first detail in an argument will make it fall apart fast","glossing-over-the-first-detail-in-an-argument-will-make-it-fall-apart-fast","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/059_-_Glossing_over_the_first_detail_in_an_argument_will_make_it_fall_apart_fast.mp3?dest-id=1025474",46199179,2861,"2020-09-04T21:40:13Z",59,{"_60":1002,"_44":1003,"_46":1004,"_42":1005,"_74":75,"_76":1006,"_78":1007,"_80":1008,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1009},"e1611217-fae8-41d8-a4ab-7024faa5fe2d","You deserve to be treated with nothing less than respect and kindness","you-deserve-to-be-treated-with-nothing-less-than-respect-and-kindness","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/058_-_You_dont_deserve_to_be_treated_with_anything_less_than_respect_and_kindness.mp3?dest-id=1025474",24384486,1496,"2020-08-28T00:54:25Z",58,{"_60":1011,"_44":1012,"_46":1013,"_42":1014,"_74":75,"_76":1015,"_78":1016,"_80":1017,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1018},"4de1eeb4-dfac-4df6-bc2b-858c2ff9f290","Should you share content that talks about emotional abuse with emotionally abusive people?","should-you-share-content-that-talks-about-emotional-abuse-with-emotionally-abusive-people","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/057_-_Should_you_share_content_that_talks_about_emotional_abuse_with_emotionally_abusive_people.mp3?dest-id=1025474",28227391,1733,"2020-08-16T17:44:29Z",57,{"_60":1020,"_44":1021,"_46":1022,"_42":1023,"_74":75,"_76":1024,"_78":1025,"_80":1026,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1027},"028e2ebc-05e4-45d7-a2db-16c80f9c36a7","What do you do when 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behavior","connecting-all-the-dots-of-emotionally-abusive-and-manipulative-behavior","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/046_-_Connecting_all_the_dots_of_emotionally_abusive_and_manipulative_behavior.mp3?dest-id=1025474",52798791,3224,"2020-03-24T22:21:40Z",46,{"_60":1118,"_44":1119,"_46":1120,"_42":1121,"_74":75,"_76":1122,"_78":1123,"_80":1124,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1125},"3022e2b9-9168-4e29-9ba0-b23bcd6d7056","The Turn-Around game: How emotionally abusive people keep you busy explaining and defending yourself","the-turn-around-game-how-emotionally-abusive-people-keep-you-busy-explaining-and-defending-yourself","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/045_-_The_Turn-Around_game__How_emotionally_abusive_people_keep_you_busy_explaining_and_defending_yourself.mp3?dest-id=1025474",40904071,2551,"2020-02-29T19:12:25Z",45,{"_60":1127,"_44":1128,"_46":1129,"_42":1130,"_74":75,"_76":1131,"_78":1132,"_80":1133,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1134},"3e46ee4a-c19a-43f3-8cbb-c00de3c4a72c","When the emotional abuse stops, can the relationship continue?","when-the-emotional-abuse-stops-can-the-relationship-continue","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/044_-_When_the_emotional_abuse_stops_can_the_relationship_continue.mp3?dest-id=1025474",34748388,2096,"2020-02-12T02:25:56Z",44,{"_60":1136,"_44":1137,"_46":1138,"_42":1139,"_74":75,"_76":1140,"_78":1141,"_80":1142,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1143},"76a54a65-87b3-45f9-a144-8db487cbfa2b","When you are triggered by your Facebook friends: Staying 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behavior","understanding-the-thought-process-behind-manipulative-behavior","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/041_-_Understanding_the_thought_process_behind_manipulative_behavior.mp3?dest-id=1025474",23474775,1392,"2020-01-14T03:58:49Z",41,{"_60":1163,"_44":1164,"_46":1165,"_42":1166,"_74":75,"_76":1167,"_78":1168,"_80":1169,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1170},"974b190b-a796-4fd8-9a98-51f679c3c060","Dealing with adversity and toxic behavior in all your relationships","dealing-with-adversity-and-toxic-behavior-in-all-your-relationships","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/040_-_Dealing_with_adversity_and_toxic_behavior_in_all_your_relationships.mp3?dest-id=1025474",39339655,2360,"2019-12-31T01:43:33Z",40,{"_60":1172,"_44":1173,"_46":1174,"_42":1175,"_74":75,"_76":1176,"_78":1177,"_80":1178,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1179},"a2090bf8-5006-4134-9324-27f2317f47fa","Emotionally abusive behavior breaks apart what could be a good relationship","emotionally-abusive-behavior-breaks-apart-what-could-be-a-good-relationship","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/039_-__Emotionally_abusive_behavior_breaks_apart_what_could_be_a_good_relationship.mp3?dest-id=1025474",54088392,3325,"2019-12-12T00:00:01Z",39,{"_60":1181,"_44":1182,"_46":1183,"_42":1184,"_74":75,"_76":1185,"_78":1186,"_80":1187,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1188},"88b51bea-3dde-4148-9495-ed1f0a5b0700","You will never, ever be good enough for a manipulative and controlling person","you-will-never-ever-be-good-enough-for-a-manipulative-and-controlling-person","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/038_-_You_will_never_ever_be_good_enough_for_a_manipulative_and_controlling_person.mp3?dest-id=1025474",36587826,2211,"2019-11-27T02:41:12Z",38,{"_60":1190,"_44":1191,"_46":1192,"_42":1193,"_74":75,"_76":1194,"_78":1195,"_80":1196,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1197},"eb8268a3-15ed-489e-b003-60ccadc8a6ea","Kind words carefully crafted to plant the seed of 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love","how-to-stop-being-hurtful-and-controlling-with-the-people-you-love","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/035_-_How_to_stop_being_hurtful_and_controlling_with_the_people_you_love.mp3?dest-id=1025474",38273038,2316,"2019-11-05T03:04:36Z",35,{"_60":1217,"_44":1218,"_46":1219,"_42":1220,"_74":75,"_76":1221,"_78":1222,"_80":1223,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1224},"90f2e65b-f361-4d63-92b3-4a1288a27beb","An analysis of emotional abuse: Breaking down the bad behavior","an-analysis-of-emotional-abuse-breaking-down-the-bad-behavior","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/034_-_An_analysis_of_emotional_abuse_-_Breaking_down_the_behavior.mp3?dest-id=1025474",40482370,2455,"2019-10-25T01:25:32Z",34,{"_60":1226,"_44":1227,"_46":1228,"_42":1229,"_74":75,"_76":1230,"_78":1231,"_80":1232,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1233},"c513d17f-17f6-4c36-81c4-ee6fdc110511","Is your response to their bad behavior emotional abuse?","is-your-response-to-their-bad-behavior-emotional-abuse","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/033_-_Is_your_response_to_their_bad_behavior_emotional_abuse.mp3?dest-id=1025474",27872631,1666,"2019-10-15T23:23:38Z",33,{"_60":1235,"_44":1236,"_46":1237,"_42":1238,"_74":75,"_76":1239,"_78":1240,"_80":1241,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1242},"2bbb3e95-7da6-4530-baca-dbbcb9d92f53","When someone tarnishes your good name and reputation - The Smear Campaign","when-someone-tarnishes-your-good-name-and-reputation-the-smear-campaign","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/032_-_When_someone_tarnishes_your_good_name_and_reputation_-_The_Smear_Campaign.mp3?dest-id=1025474",45140107,2746,"2019-10-09T00:56:58Z",32,{"_60":1244,"_44":1245,"_46":1246,"_42":1247,"_74":75,"_76":1248,"_78":1249,"_80":1250,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1251},"fc896e6f-4d3c-4360-926d-10e74df78b9e","If you leave me, I'll kill myself - the ultimate abuse of your empathy and 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abuser","dont-show-them-how-crazy-you-feel-and-sharing-custody-with-the-emotional-abuser","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/028_-_Dont_show_them_how_crazy_you_feel_and_sharing_custody_with_the_emotional_abuser.mp3?dest-id=1025474",51113580,3119,"2019-08-07T16:00:00Z",28,{"_60":1271,"_44":1272,"_46":1273,"_42":1274,"_74":75,"_76":1275,"_78":1276,"_80":1277,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1278},"525c1ece-2f97-4121-a519-067fd57b35ef","Emotional Abuse explained for your friends, family, attorney, therapist or anyone else that may need to know what you're experiencing","emotional-abuse-explained-for-your-friends-family-attorney-therapist-or-anyone-else-that-may-need-to-know-what-youre-experiencing","https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/loveandabuse/027_-_Emotional_Abuse_explained_for_your_friends_family_attorney_therapist_or_anyone_else_that_may_need_to_know_what_youre_experiencing.mp3?dest-id=1025474",31576914,1898,"2019-08-04T03:08:54Z",27,{"_60":1280,"_44":1281,"_46":1282,"_42":1283,"_74":75,"_76":1284,"_78":1285,"_80":1286,"_82":83,"_84":6,"_85":1287},"274cad48-62b6-4c3f-b977-4e3a16676be8","The toxic relationship alters your view of reality making you think your future is 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The emotionally abusive relationship can sometimes be hard to define. How long must abusive behavior go on before actually admit that what's really happening is abuse?

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Why you may not be ready to call it abuse when it is abuse

Episode Description

Never lose your place, on any device