Lauren met Jaymes on Instagram, flew to Australia, and married him six weeks later. Two weeks into their relationship they started her OnlyFans. Seven years and one baby on the way later, they explain why none of it is what you think.

Lauren and Jaymes Wright have broken pretty much every rule you have ever been given about dating, marriage and money. They got engaged on a mushroom trip near a waterfall. They ran into their celebrant the same morning they decided to get married. Lauren made 15,000 US dollars in her first two weeks online. And now, 24 weeks pregnant with their first daughter, Lauren says this career is going to make her a better mum.

In this episode Lara asks the questions everyone is thinking and nobody says out loud.

Here is what they get into:

• How a comment about the Amazon fires turned into a marriage proposal
• Why they say the six week wedding was not a visa arrangement, and what it actually was
• The moment Jaymes decided she was the one
• Why Jaymes is not jealous, and what he says to the men who ask how he allows it
• How Lauren went from teaching adult gymnastics in the UK to earning more in two weeks than she used to earn in three months
• The uncomfortable truth Lauren learned about the men who were already saving her photos, years before she ever posted anything explicit
• Where the boundaries sit when subscribers want companionship instead of content
• What actually changes when you get pregnant and your body is your business
• Why Lauren does not care what anyone thinks about a mum doing this work
• The one rule they will never break when it comes to their daughter and the internet
• What Lauren would say if her daughter came to her one day and said she wanted to do the same job

This one is honest, funny and a lot more thoughtful than the headline suggests.

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 This episode contains discussion of sex work, drug use and adult themes. Explicit language.