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Has therapyspeak improved our lives?","29-has-therapyspeak-improved-our-lives","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2024/09/240903_If_I_Speak_29_Has_therapyspeak_improved_our_lives.mp3",87994121,3627,"2024-09-03T05:00:27Z","19804a58-c8cc-4864-bdd5-9e326544a916","A message from Moya…","a-message-from-moya","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2024/09/240910_If_I_Speak_A_message_from_Moya.mp3",1787673,74,"2024-09-10T05:00:59Z","b9a56485-6702-449e-9de6-b9b3f5bb3c21","30: Unbothered, moisturised, happy – and ready for a relationship?","30-unbothered-moisturised-happy-and-ready-for-a-relationship","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2024/09/240916_If_I_Speak_30_Unbothered_moisturise_happy_and_ready_for_a_relationship.mp3",97930711,4041,"2024-09-17T05:00:57Z","70981745-0bc8-4d29-bdd3-40e5362027bc","31: Why isn’t my best friend excited about my wedding?","31-why-isnt-my-best-friend-excited-about-my-wedding","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2024/09/200924_If_I_Speak_31_Why_isnt_my_best_friend_excited_about_my_wedding.mp3",85758686,3533,"2024-09-24T05:00:31Z","64b1e8cc-8d10-4d66-aada-4d222874c0f9","32: What makes a house a home?","32-what-makes-a-house-a-home","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2024/09/240930_If_I_Speak_32_What_makes_a_house_a_home.mp3",72282579,2972,"2024-10-01T05:00:55Z","e6f481ce-4460-445e-8821-82be7c09699e","33: What makes you embarrassed to be leftwing?","33-what-makes-you-embarrassed-to-be-leftwing","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2024/10/241008_33_If_I_Speak_What_makes_you_embarrassed_to_be_leftwing.mp3",74701223,3072,"2024-10-08T05:00:01Z","2141449f-5fbe-42b4-b789-e6e5d30b81d4","34: How mean can you be to other people’s kids?","34-how-mean-can-you-be-to-other-peoples-kids","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2024/10/241015_If_I_Speak_34_How_mean_can_you_be_to_other_peoples_kids.mp3",94068890,3879,"2024-10-15T05:00:05Z","78147e00-ad1a-464b-9959-28e6267d524f","35: Help! 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How to deal with people who can’t deal with you","44-how-to-deal-with-people-who-cant-deal-with-you","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2024/12/241224_If_I_Speak_44_How_to_deal_with_people_who_cant_deal_with_you.mp3",88648993,3653,"2024-12-24T05:00:53Z","38479feb-2fa3-404b-bea6-ddea9118ff3b","45: Surviving end-of-year burnout","45-surviving-end-of-year-burnout","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2024/12/241231_If_I_Speak_45_Surviving_end_of_year_burnout.mp3",97465146,4020,"2024-12-31T05:00:13Z","e6ee21b7-b279-4b02-a496-a514cb845d2b","46: Porn is everywhere. How damaging is it really?","46-porn-is-everywhere-how-damaging-is-it-really","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/01/250106_46_Porn_is_everywhere_How_damaging_is_it_really.mp3",109975494,4541,"2025-01-07T05:00:17Z","4c562307-c00a-424c-a6fe-71975199caba","47: Is the era of public shaming over? w/ Yomi Adegoke at London Podcast Festival","47-is-the-era-of-public-shaming-over-w-yomi-adegoke-at-london-podcast-festival","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/01/250114_If_I_Speak_47_Is_The_Era_of_Public_Shaming_Over_w_Yomi_Adegoke_V2.mp3",119683660,4949,"2025-01-14T05:00:45Z","5fecf776-5276-4bf1-a690-304cab256a44","48: Is it time to cut off my lying dad?","48-is-it-time-to-cut-off-my-lying-dad","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/01/240121_If_I_Speak_48_Is_it_time_to_cut_off_my_lying_dad.mp3",89511331,3688,"2025-01-21T05:00:36Z","f2b7fbb9-f81f-422a-8325-5a67c0f41875","49: We need to see more wrinkles on screen!","49-we-need-to-see-more-wrinkles-on-screen","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/01/250127_If_I_Speak_49_We_need_more_wrinkles_on_screen.mp3",88281943,3637,"2025-01-28T05:00:08Z","1978fe54-2711-4be4-b05b-9d7e33fc85e3","50: The return of the slur","50-the-return-of-the-slur","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/02/250204_If_I_Speak_50_The_return_of_the_slur.mp3",93109342,3838,"2025-02-04T05:00:48Z","d74fd909-5be2-4182-a532-6cdb2fed3697","51: Am I feminine enough for you?","51-am-i-feminine-enough-for-you","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/02/250211_If_I_Speak_51_Am_I_feminine_enough_for_you.mp3",87937469,3622,"2025-02-11T05:00:07Z","972e8d83-5744-4a98-802a-9cda7e57ec79","52: Happy birthday IIS! Now ask us anything…","52-happy-birthday-iis-now-ask-us-anything","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/02/250218_If_I_Speak_52_Happy_birthday_IIS_Now_ask_us_anything.mp3",96067171,3985,"2025-02-18T05:00:56Z","ce867514-ca78-4437-a11c-6e3db6db0696","53: Getting ‘the ick’","53-getting-the-ick","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/02/250224_If_I_Speak_53_Getting_the_ick.mp3",68207413,2824,"2025-02-25T05:00:58Z","80f683fb-1ea7-4c52-b162-ffe8f02dc4ab","54: Forget the boycott, gimme that brand deal","54-forget-the-boycott-gimme-that-brand-deal","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/03/250304_If_I_Speak_54_Forget_the_boycott_gimme_that_brand_deal.mp3",77649042,3217,"2025-03-04T05:00:25Z","cb31d056-3d31-4855-a46d-9b549f1b6657","55: Joy is an act of resistance… right?","55-joy-is-an-act-of-resistance-right","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/03/250311_If_I_Speak_55_Joy_is_an_act_of_resistance_right.mp3",91006531,3774,"2025-03-11T05:00:02Z","cfc97a47-1a6a-4b76-bc1c-c76be1ed108c","56: The one where Moya grills Ash on her new book","56-the-one-where-moya-grills-ash-on-her-new-book","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/03/250320_IfISpeak_56_The_one_where_Moya_grills_Ash_on_her_new_book_fix.mp3",91416036,3748,"2025-03-18T05:00:06Z","b243b276-af57-4777-9715-4ff414435847","57: Do you really want to know about your partner’s past mistakes?","57-do-you-really-want-to-know-about-your-partners-past-mistakes","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/03/250325_If_I_Speak_57_Do_you_really_want_to_know_partners_mistakesFIX.mp3",100734143,4179,"2025-03-25T08:07:01Z","376b50e8-a32d-4b24-9cc3-e1b777b8024b","58: I want to be fun again. Help!","58-i-want-to-be-fun-again-help","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/04/250401_If_I_Speak_58_I_want_to_be_fun_again_Help.mp3",83138906,3421,"2025-04-01T05:00:06Z","008a0f6a-6af2-4b72-bd5c-d41913c2db2e","59: Does my ex owe me money for the house we renovated?","59-does-my-ex-owe-me-money-for-the-house-we-renovated","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/storage.googleapis.com/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/04/250408_If_I_Speak_59_Does_my_ex_owe_me_money_for_the_house_we_renovated.mp3",88679175,3676,"2025-04-08T05:00:18Z","4311c215-e7fc-4df1-9c56-aa1444578d11","60: Are we too addicted to convenience?","60-are-we-too-addicted-to-convenience","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/storage.googleapis.com/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/04/250415_If_I_Speak_60_Are_we_too_addicted_to_convenience.mp3",74929048,3103,"2025-04-15T05:00:20Z","9887dcc6-f1dc-4b42-a98a-4c09de4d7204","61: Can friendships cross class lines? w/ Natasha Brown","61-can-friendships-cross-class-lines-w-natasha-brown","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/04/250422_If_I_Speak_61_Can_friendships_cross_class_lines_w_Natasha_Brown.mp3",81732180,3362,"2025-04-22T05:00:16Z","729c6c45-3cf1-4b03-a19c-f08cba19ed6b","62: I’m not sure I want to call myself a feminist anymore…","62-im-not-sure-i-want-to-call-myself-a-feminist-anymore","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/storage.googleapis.com/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/04/250229_62_Im_not_sure_I_want_to_call_myself_a_feminist_anymore.mp3",109851276,3400,"2025-04-29T05:00:50Z","faa85783-acac-4a8c-a96a-3c346dba80a2","63: Do people just want to be told what to do?","63-do-people-just-want-to-be-told-what-to-do","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/05/250505_If_I_Speak_63_Do_people_just_want_to_be_told_what_to_do.mp3",119966962,3734,"2025-05-06T05:00:04Z","33d1c875-6e5e-4602-b417-52a8a1b3f332","64: What is the female gaze?","64-what-is-the-female-gaze","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/05/250513_If_I_Speak_64_What_is_the_female_gaze_.mp3",110840367,3449,"2025-05-13T05:00:29Z","cecc47ff-a8b4-4287-b58e-101b87ac713d","65: Has your smartphone broken your brain?","65-has-your-smartphone-broken-your-brain","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/05/250520_IfISpeak_65_Has_your_smartphone_broken_your_brain.mp3",105318579,3276,"2025-05-20T05:00:18Z","8effd870-d4d5-4344-894f-b153a03f3553","66: I’m right, you’re wrong, end of!","66-im-right-youre-wrong-end-of","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/storage.googleapis.com/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/05/250527_If_I_Speak_66_Im_right_youre_wrong_end_of.mp3",113216912,3523,"2025-05-27T05:00:48Z","67238e71-e6a3-4f84-b7a2-4dde2d29618b","67: What’s up with Generation Alpha?","67-whats-up-with-generation-alpha","https://media.blubrry.com/novarafm_radio_for_a/storage.googleapis.com/audiofiles.novara.io/if-i-speak/2025/06/250603_If_I_Speak_67_Whats_up_with_Generation_Alpha.mp3",108153440,3365,"2025-06-03T05:00:21Z","d1795a07-e630-4e3d-b323-4f8465e90438","68: Help! 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107: Do we love success but hate ambition?

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