Episode Description
Slam Dunk Level Intimacy. Every. Single. Time.
Katie Thompson sits down with Dr. Emily Jamea for an unfiltered conversation about today's decline in s*x, the biases that keep us from talking about our desires, and the 5 secrets to unlocking full-blown flow state in the bedroom.
- You’ve seen an athlete “in the zone.”
- You’ve watched a musician lose themselves mid-song.
- But have you ever thought about what flow state looks like during intimacy?
Turns out the same neurochemistry that fuels peak performance on the court can fuel peak connection under the sheets.
Hear how intimacy takes shape in short and long term relationships, why getting to know your own body and sexual desires is the prerequisite before finding flow and intimacy, and learn exactly how to communicate what you want and when you want it, no matter how big the swing.
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Katie and Dr. Emily Jamea break down exactly how to tap into the intimacy secrets you've always wanted. Welcome to mutually rewarding, home-run kind of intimacy, every single time.
This episode is about discovering your own body, owning your desires, and learning how to ask for what you want, when you want it.
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Dr. Emily Jamea is an award-winning intimacy and relationship therapist and the USA Today best-selling author of Anatomy of Desire: Five Secrets to Create Connection and Cultivate Passion. She’s a sought-after keynote speaker who presents nationally and internationally to educators, health and mental health professionals, corporate leaders, and the general public.
Her expertise has been featured in Oprah Magazine, CNN, USA Today, NBC, and more.
Dr. Jamea is an award-winning columnist for Healthy Women and was named a 2025 Outstanding Woman in Medicine by The Arts of Healing Foundation.
She writes for Psychology Today, and offers online workshops to make her expertise accessible to everyone.
Follow her across all platforms @dremilyjamea.
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I Shaved My Vag For This is written and directed by Katie Thompson.
Co-production and editing by Sophia Puccetti.
Podcast theme song and musical parodies written and produced by Katie Thompson.
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