Hilary (@theOtherHilary) is back to chat with Kari about hating yourself-in-other-people, respectful conversation, when and how we indulge ourselves, the statute of limitations on being mean, safe places for venting, and self-regulation.

This episode of I Guess We're Grown-Ups Now is sponsored by:

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Hilary’s previous appearance on IGWGUN, about civic politics.

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Kari talks self-care.

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