Episode Description
Have you ever felt like food is always on your mind like a constant background tab running no matter what you're doing? In this episode, Leslie opens up about her own decades-long experience with "food noise" and what it really felt like inside. From packing excessive snacks out of fear of being hungry, to scale panic spirals, to social anxiety around restaurants and events, she shares the raw truth about how exhausting and all-consuming food obsession can become.
Leslie explains why dieting temporarily quiets the noise but never actually solves it. She reveals how food noise isn't about lack of willpower or discipline, but about nervous system dysregulation, perfectionism, identity, and a deep search for internal peace. The constant monitoring, restriction, and "all-or-nothing" control are not health they're survival patterns disguised as responsibility.
Most importantly, she shares what exists on the other side of food noise: mental freedom, calm, presence, and the ability to fully live your life without waiting to lose weight first. This episode is both a wake-up call and an invitation to stop pushing the problem down and finally resolve what's underneath it so you can evolve into the life you're meant to live.
"You're trying to fix a feeling by fixing your body. But losing weight does not stop the food noise." — Leslie Thornton
What you will learn from this episode:
00:23 – What food noise actually feels like in everyday life
01:52 – How the scale can trigger panic and self-sabotage
03:02 – The social impact of food obsession and restaurant anxiety
05:01 – What "food noise" really means (and why dieting doesn't solve it)
07:40 – Why perfection temporarily quiets the noise but creates a bigger crash
09:11 – Why dieting is a temporary solution, not a root fix
14:17 – How identifying as a "food addict" reinforces the pattern
18:04 – The true definition of food noise: mental preoccupation and hypervigilance
20:11 – How restriction, stress, and survival wiring increase food thoughts
21:47 – Why both overeating and over-controlling come from the same dysregulated system
24:22 – The real driver underneath food obsession: trying to fix a feeling
25:58 – Why losing weight does not eliminate food noise
28:10 – The truth about BMI and health (Health at Every Size study)
31:17 – Why waiting to lose weight before living your life keeps you stuck
32:11 – What life actually looks like without food noise
36:15 – The "page turning" identity shift that ends the struggle
Connect With Leslie Thornton:
- Book A Clarity Call
- Website
- Email: Leslie@hpwl.co
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